When you no longer know whether you’re fighting for your relationship… or simply fighting each other.
A private immersive experience for couples who want to give their relationship one honest opportunity before making one of life’s biggest decisions.
Every relationship deserves one honest opportunity.
Not to stay together at any cost. But to know—whatever happens—that you truly did everything you could.
But to know—whatever happens—that you truly did everything you could.
How many times have you said … “Let’s give it one more try.”
Only to find yourselves having the same argument a few days later.
The same silence. The same misunderstandings. The same emotional distance.
That same feeling that you’re each speaking your own language.
Maybe you’ve reached a point where you’re asking yourselves questions like:
- 🤔 Are we still meant to be together?
- 🤨 Can we find each other again?
- 🙄 Is there still something worth saving?
- 😮 Or is it time to let go—with love instead of resentment?
If you’re here, chances are you’re not looking for another vacation.
You’re looking for clarity and understanding.
For one honest opportunity to discover whether your relationship still has a future.
You need a safe space where, for the first time in a long time, you can truly hear each other again.
How does your journey begin?
Discovery Call → Acceptance → Reservation
Every Relationship Reset begins with a complimentary Discovery Call.
Because this isn’t about selling a program.
It’s about making sure we’re the right people to guide you through one of the most important decisions of your lives.
It’s an opportunity for us to get to feel each other, hear about your relationship, explore your intentions and clarify what you’re hoping to create together.
We’ll also share our SELF REHACK® methodology, answer your questions and explain how the experience unfolds.
If we all feel that we’re the right fit for this journey, we’ll personally invite you to begin your SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset.
30 minutes • No obligation
This Is Not Another Couples Retreat
This isn’t therapy.
It isn’t traditional relationship coaching.
It isn’t a group retreat.
And it certainly isn’t another weekend seminar filled with information you’ll forget a week later.
SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset is an intimate, highly personalized experience designed for just one couple at a time.
For six consecutive days, we meet for approximately four hours each day.
Through experiential exercises, conscious communication, body awareness, emotional release, movement, reflection and guided conversations, we create a safe space where truth can emerge.
Not pointing fingers. Not about who is right.
Just expressing your needs clearly—and truly listening.
The rest of the day belongs to you.
To walk or rest.
To reflect or talk.
To simply be together and feel each other once again.
What Is Self ReHack®?
It is our methodology for personal and relational transformation.
Based on one simple truth:
Every relationship begins to change the moment you start changing yourself.
Most couples try to fix their relationship by demanding change from their partner.
We help each partner reconnect with themselves first.
Because communication is not only about words.
It’s about nervous systems.
Unconscious patterns.
Emotional safety.
Presence.
The willingness to truly hear.
When those begin to shift, the relationship naturally begins to shift as well.
Our goal isn’t to convince you to stay together.
Our goal is to create a space where both of you can finally see yourselves, each other, and your relationship with greater honesty.
If love still exists beneath the pain, you’ll know how to nurture it again.
If your journey together has come to an end, you’ll leave with clarity, respect and inner peace.
Because often, the deepest pain isn’t the separation itself.
It’s the question that follows it. “Did we really do everything we could?”
SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset was created so you don’t have to live with that question unanswered.
Is This Experience Right for You?
This program is designed for couples who …
- ✅ feel emotionally disconnected,
- ✅ keep repeating the same arguments,
- ✅ struggle to talk without getting defensive or slipping into conflict,
- ✅ are considering separation or divorce,
- ✅ want to rebuild trust and emotional intimacy,
- ✅ want to give their relationship one honest opportunity before making a life-changing decision,
- ✅ aren’t facing major problems, but want to deepen their bond before daily life pulls them apart.
What You’ll Gain
After six immersive days and six months of integration, you’ll leave with much more than just fond memories.
You’ll step into a completely new experience of relationship:
- ❇️ a deeper understanding of yourself
- ❇️ a deeper understanding of your partner
- ❇️ healthier communication tools
- ❇️ the ability to express needs without attacking
- ❇️ the ability to truly listen without defending
- ❇️ greater emotional safety
- ❇️ healthier boundaries
- ❇️ renewed trust
- ❇️ deeper emotional and physical intimacy
- ❇️ practical tools to continue growing together long after you return home
- ❇️ better insight into your subconscious patterns and their impact on your relationship
- ❇️ more inner peace, clarity, and trust in the future—regardless of your joint decision
The Journey
It’s not just about six days.
It’s a journey that starts well before you land in Tenerife—and carries on for months after you get back home.
Step One – Discovery Call
If we all feel that the SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset is the right path for us, we’ll set the dates and begin crafting your personalized experience.
Step Two – Your 6-Day Immersive Experience in Tenerife
Each day includes approximately four hours of private guided work, tailored specifically to your relationship.
No set script. No one-size-fits-all solutions.
The program unfolds in real time—responding directly to what your relationship needs most in that exact moment.
Every session builds upon the previous one, allowing deep transformation to unfold naturally.
The remaining time is intentionally left open for rest, reflection and integration.
Step Three – Six Months of Guided Integration
Real transformation doesn’t happen during six beautiful days.
It happens when you return to your everyday life.
To responsibilities.
To old triggers.
That’s why your journey continues.
Over the following six months, we’ll meet regularly online for nine private integration sessions.
Together we will:
- 👍celebrate your progress,
- 😠 identify recurring patterns,
- 💪 strengthen your new communication habits,
- 🤗 support you through real-life challenges,
- 🥰 ensure your transformation becomes part of everyday life.
Vsako srečanje temelji na vajini aktualni situaciji. Ne sledimo programu. Sledimo vajinemu življenju.
Because transformation is not an event.
It’s a practice. It’s a choice we actively live out every day.
Why Tenerife?
Changing your environment changes your perspective.
Away from routines, responsibilities and distractions.
Not to escape life, but so you can look at it again with greater clarity.
Tenerife offers something many couples haven’t experienced in years:
Space. Silence. Nature. Presence.
Sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed for two people to hear each other again.
You Choose Your Accommodation — We Come to You
This is one of the defining highlights of the SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset program.
Instead of asking you to travel to a retreat center and share your journey with strangers, we bring the experience to the place where you feel most comfortable.
Your villa. Your temporary home in Tenerife.
That is rare.
Your relationship deserves privacy.
That’s why you choose the accommodation where you feel most comfortable.
Each day, we come to your villa for your private sessions.
All you need is:
✔ a quiet environment
✔ at least 15–20 m² (160–215 sq ft) of open indoor space to move comfortably
✔ a separate bathroom for us (for everyone’s comfort during extended sessions)
Everything else is provided by us. We’re also happy to help you choose the right accommodation anywhere on Tenerife.
Investment
SELF REHACK® Relationship Reset
A private transformational experience designed exclusively for one couple at a time.
€3,000 per couple
We accept only a limited number of couples each year to ensure every experience receives our full attention.
Special regional pricing for couples from Slovenia, Croatia, Serbia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, and Montenegro.
Because we want the program to be accessible to couples from our home region.
You’re investing in the peace of knowing that whatever decision you make afterward will be based on clarity.
This isn’t just about investing in Relationship Reset. You are choosing the kind of relationship you want to live in.
Your experience includes:
- ✔ Complimentary Discovery Call
- ✔ Six private immersive sessions in Tenerife
- ✔ Approximately 24 hours of guided experiential work
- ✔ A fully personalized program
- ✔ Daily practice and tailored guidance between sessions
- ✔ Six months of guided integration with written recommendations
- ✔ Nine private online mentoring sessions
- ✔ Ongoing support throughout your integration journey
Investment excludes:
- ❌ Flights
- ❌ Accommodation
- ❌ Meals
- ❌ Personal expenses
This Experience Is Not for Everyone
- ❌ It isn’t for couples looking to prove who’s right.
- ❌ It isn’t for people expecting their partner to do all the work.
- ❌ It isn’t for those unwilling to look within.
- ✅It is for couples who are ready to choose honesty over blame.
For couples who believe that a relationship is always co-created, and that the biggest shifts happen when each person is willing to take the first step within themselves.
Why We Created SELF REHACK®?
It was born from life. From our own experiences.
From the questions many people only begin asking after a relationship has already ended.
After my own divorce, one question stayed with me for years.
Did we really do everything we could?
Not whether we should have stayed together.
Not who was right.
Simply this.
Did we give ourselves the chance to truly hear each other before letting it go?
This question stayed with me for a long time.
And it is precisely because of it that today I believe every couple deserves a space where—before making such a major life decision—they can genuinely explore their relationship.
Not to stay together at all costs.
But so that one day, both can peacefully say:
We did everything in our power.
SELF REHACK® was born out of this realization. Today, we create this space for other couples.
Jelena Dimitrijević – Holistic Nutritionist, Intuitive Guide & Relationship Coach
Simon Vučer – Relationship Coach & Men’s Group Facilitator
Co-creators of the Self-Care project, who together build a safe, loving space where you can let go of everything that weighs you down—and start anew.
Impressions from past participants:
- Renata Košan
- »My husband and I arrived with no expectations and a little discomfort, knowing this would be a personalized, one-on-one experience. I’ve been to counteless workshops and training sessions before, but this one was in a league of its own. Truly holistic, it covers every area of life and naturally resonates most where you face your biggest challenges. I learned to listen to myself and others, to be mindful of what I say and the tone I use, and to stay aware of how I feel and what I need. I learned how to express myself through touch, discovered my love language, and mastered emotional release techniques. I gained deep insight into how, what, and when I eat, what truly nourishes my body, where I hold myself back, and why… I could go on and on. Jelena and Simon complement each other beautifully and are a true role model for a loving partnership. I am immensely grateful to myself for taking part, and to both of them for everything they so selflessly and continuously shared. It was a wonderful, deeply moving experience that continues with post-program Zoom support to ensure smooth integration. From the bottom of my heart, thank you both. You are wonderful. I highly recommend visiting this island, which—with its raw nature and unique vibration—supports the body even further, awakening our liveliness and joy.«
FAQ
Do we need to be married?
No. Any committed couple is welcome.
What if we’re not facing a major crisis?
Then this might actually be the ideal moment. Most couples reach out only when things are already broken. You can choose to strengthen your bond before minor issues become major wounds.
What if we’re already considering divorce?
Then this experience may be more valuable than ever. Our goal isn’t to keep you together at any cost. It’s to help you make one of life’s biggest decisions with clarity and inner peace.
Can you help us find accommodation?
Absolutely. We’ll happily recommend locations and accommodations that best support your experience.
What if we decide to separate during the process?
This, too, can be a beautiful closure. Sometimes, the most loving decision two people can make is to part ways consciously. Without blame. Without resentment. Without years of unspoken words. Should this happen, we will walk through this process together with you.
Why six months of support after you return home?
Because your biggest challenges aren’t in Tenerife; they’re back home. Where daily life and old patterns await. True change doesn’t show up during a getaway—it’s built in the way you live every day from now on. And that’s exactly why we stay by your side even after you get back.
What if we realize during the introductory call that the program isn’t the right fit?
Then we will simply be honest about it. The introductory call isn’t meant to be a sales pitch—it’s designed to check whether our approach can truly deliver the highest possible value for your relationship. If we feel there is a more suitable form of support for you, we will openly tell you so.
Maybe what’s hurting your relationship isn’t a lack of love.
Maybe it’s the way you’ve learned to protect yourselves.
If, beneath the disappointment,
the silence,
and the conflict,
there’s still a spark…
Give it the opportunity it deserves.
Not by trying harder. But by seeing each other differently.
Self ReHack® Relationship Reset
Six immersive days.
Six months of guided integration.
One opportunity to rediscover yourselves—and each other.
We can’t promise that you’ll stay together.
But we can promise something else.
That you’ll leave with a deeper understanding of yourselves. Of each other.
And with the peace of knowing that you gave your relationship one honest opportunity.
Sometimes that’s what changes everything.
And sometimes that’s exactly what allows two people to let each other go—with love instead of regret.
Your Journey Begins With One Honest Conversation.
Not with a decision.
Not with a booking.
Not with a payment.
With a Discovery Call.
If, after meeting each other, we all feel this is the right journey, we’ll take the next step together.
If not, you’ll leave with greater clarity and absolutely no obligation.
30 minutes • No obligation
After Relationship Reset some couples rediscover each other.
Some discover it’s time to lovingly let each other go.
Both leave with something priceless.
The peace of knowing they truly did everything they could.
We can’t decide for you. But we can ensure you’ll never look back wondering if there was something more you could have done.
